Assume, despite your W's protestations, that she does not find sex reliably rewarding because she doesn't reliable have real Os. She is asking for something new and different because what is going on isn't working for her. Assume that she has faked almost all the Os she's had with you. If she has been faking, it is very unlikely that she would tell you. She's already burdened enough with protecting your fragile sexual ego, which is a very tedious job in itself. So, simply assume that sex is not good for her. Change this. Invest in an eroscillator. The next time you have sex, insist that she can only tease you, not make you O. In the meantime, help her O in ONLY NEW ways several times. Create psychological sexual tension. Be confident. That will be something different.
W is telling the truth. The pouty/needy/whiny stuff is extremely sexually unattractive. Stop it immediately.
