Yes, those were the things that I took as a good warning not to expose at work. I think you made a very good choice to stop exposing as it was counter-productive in your case. I cannot imagine how humiliating it would be if someone were to challenge me about my personal life at work. That is very dangerous ground. The only time I could see it being appropriate is if the affair involved co-workers and trysts occurred at the workplace. And I realize that is often the scenario.
...and they did. another nurse walked in on them in the NICU chapel. not sure exactly what they were doing, but it caused the other nurse to turn and run out. and a (married) chaplain and a nurse are co-workers, even if they don't technically work in the same dept. btw--xH reports directly to the hospital's VP of Ethics and Social Concerns. There's some irony for you.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
