Thank you Puppy - that's cool of you to say. I appreciate all of the advice you have ever given me. You do your best to help people here and you are a great resource. I feel like I fought for her and our M. I can see now that her decision was made before I knew the battle had even started.
Rob she has changed the locks (without my consent of course). I can go the route of getting a locksmith there to let me in or I could go to the property mngmnt office and ask for them to loan me a key. And your right I am too conservative about this - maybe about the whole sitch. My L suggested that I take a friend there with me. I would prefer that she not even be there when I get my crap out. I don't even want to see her. I'm gonna figure this out.
Cautious - I'm really working on no longer dwelling on this and not living in the past. It is taking time for me to get over it. I can see where it makes me unattractive and pathetic looking. I could feel that last night when I went out. That pit of dispair you speak of is this incompleteness that I feel. I feel like my right arm is missing.
Me-32 W-29 No kids ILYBNILWY 11.20.09 Separated 01.10.10 Discovered EA 01.13.10 W admitted to PA 02.21.10 I filed for D 03.09.10