I was just wondering if OW H has been truthful with you. To me, it appears that he has, so how did he become the common enemy?
By contrast, your h IS lying to you and has flaunted his ow pretty much in your face. Is he still flying a great distance to see her?
The problem here kimmie is that OWH & I have been talking you could say "intimately" about our lives with our spouses and exchanged lots of information, OWH has chosen to use it (take it out of context and exaggerate) to attack and put down my WH in the eyes of the OW & everyone else who would listen.
I on the other hand didn't tell my H anything OWH said about OW. Truth is I did find out from OWH about the free work H is doing for her company and I did bring that up - but thats business.
Anyway I'm out of that, I will not volunteer anything private to OWH. I need to "lovingly detach" (Yes I still love my H despite of what he is doing) and I also need to respect myself no matter how things turn out.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
