I had an appointment at the lawyer's office the other day to go over financials. While I was there, my lawyer asked me to TM my ex and ask him to bring proof with him that we have health insurance when he comes to get the boys on Wednesday (yesterday).
He didn't respond.
So a half hour later I retexted him the same message. He TM back, "Let me be!"
My lawyer said, "let him tell the judge that."
So when he dropped the boys home yesterday (an hour late), he gave me insurance cards, but only for the boys.
I asked him where mine was and of course the coward he is, walked away to his car and said "There is something in the documents that say I don't have to pay your insurance".
So this morning I let my lawyer know what he had said. I also told my lawyer that when asked by the magistrate if he was covering my health insurance his response was, "yes".
So my lawyer faxed ex's attorney stating what he said to me and what he said to the court regarding my insurance. Basically pointing out that he lied in court. My lawyer also advised his lawyer to reinstate me and that as long as I am not covered by health insurance, ex will be responsible for any medical bills incurred during this time.
My lawyer then heard back from family court and they said that ex asked for a hearing so he doesn't have to cover me anymore.
My lawyer said that the only stipulation in the divorce papers regarding health insurance is that 1) I have to be a full-time student and 2) I had to explore options that the school might have.
I have done both. Ex didn't seem to have a problem in covering me for the first year.
He also can't just drop me because he thinks he can. Anything like this is supposed to be heard in front of a court first.
Ex thinks he makes his own laws.
I have also still not recieved the money that owes me.
He is a piece of work.
So now the newest court date is April 15th. Wish me luck!
Miss H, you won't need luck, he will. The Judge will not be kind to him for lying in court. What did your attorney say about asking for an increase in child support? I would let him have it with both barrels! He is beaten and he knows it!
B/H have a ? for you sorry for the hijack MissH......my husband finally went to c/s court not even in front of a judge all he had to do was sign some papers TELLING him how much to pay.....no court appearence no judge......and the funny thing he seems happy with it......he got himself a JOB now, roofing.......he is 48 working on a roof??? He is no spring chicken anymore I wonder how long that is going to last.......what is his way of thinking about C/S why could he just not send money every month....seems relieved there is a court ordered C/S any ideas???
IRMA, I have no idea why his is thinking like that! LOL Personally, I think he is an idiot, but most of these people are. If he's happy on top of a roof, more power to him! LOL I know this, people like him will shovel horse manure before they admit they have done wrong.
