I will dude - know that you are not alone man...you are not alone. He is always with you. Look up at Him and stop looking at her!
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It sunk it that W doesn't care about me anymore.
Maybe - maybe NOT - R u in her head? Probably not so stop thinking you know what she is thinking. Ever heard of positive thinking?
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Got surgery yesterday and she left upset because of R talk.
DB 101 - stop having R talk! You are shooting yourself in the foot dude - stop it.
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I got upset and accused her of being a pitiful person who pretty much closes off and runs away when things get hard.
Now can you tell me how this is suppose to help your sitch?
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Don't know if it was the Valum(sp) that was talking from the surgery
Yeah...blame it on the drugs...I'm sure that looks really attractive to her.
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Need to actually write down goals and things I want to see done with me.
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Yep - do this soon. Make them about YOU not about HER.
I think that is my main prob, i haven't really commited to anything but working out and keeping my kids busy
I did the same thing. From the kids perspective this is good but you also need to have some time for yourself. Take a day a week and have dinner with friends or just hang out with some buddies - try not to let this consume you.
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Going DARK.......pray I stick to my guns.
You can do it buddy.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
