I think you are getting great advice and knowing you the way that I do I KNOW that you will take it.
Be gentle with yourself. Take the time to think positive of your situation. You will now be closer to the kids. This NO ONE can take from you. Will you be a heart surgeon in the future. I bet you will because I believe in YOU - do you believe in YOU? Ah...that is the question buddy. You can do this... you can be the man and father that you want to be and then...and only then will she see the changes in YOU.
I still believe in my heart of hearts that you guys will reconcile. You know my sitch and you know battles - but you my friend can do this....yes you can..
For the record, I'm glad your getting the 2x4 instead of me (just kidding - this is a joke everyone!). Listen to the advice, think positive, review how you are looking at things and change it so that YOU can see the positives in each sitch. More often than not there is a positive but we need to sift through the muck to find it. There is ALWAYS a positive my friend ALWAYS. Heck ya never know you may be in charge of all surgery in the future. Ya never know...so don't limit yourself. You have made it this far and you WILL make it in the future. Ya know....everytime my D says "daddy...daddy...daddy" my heart jumps for joy - this NO ONE can take from me - not my W, not my job, not my other kids...no one.
God bless - and I'll talk to you later my friend.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
