You are right she does not have respect for me or her family. At this point is all about her. I have been gaining my respect, but allowing her to do her own stuff when she comes home. I grew up that you provide support in the areas you can and vice-a-versa, so I have tried to that. I don't do that anymore because I really don't care.
She told me yesterday that she had a working dinner and would be late. I will probably be around 11 pm. I just said okay because I don't want to be around her these days anyhow. I can have some time to take care of myself without her and while the kids are asleep. Oh, the piece and quiet is bliss.
It is about the job I know for a large part!
I have done that, and it only makes matters worse for me. At least now I take the car and get what I want and need done without her poor behavior as much. She now says thank you and is doing that more since I quit doing as much for her. It is a start but I have a long way to go.
Keep the comments coming, and I will explain my shortcomings in more detail.
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