Wait a minute- was Hoosier's ex a serial cheater and NPD if memory serves me? I think expose wouldn't work with NPD, am I correct?
yes, I'm afraid you're correct. serial cheater (altho I found out about others after he left, didn't know at the time--they were brief), and definitely NPD. And what I thought was midlife crisis was simply an exit affair and xH taking the brakes off his already profoundly selfish persona.
that was all well before I found the boards, btw. flying by the seat of my pants in the beginning.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012