Talk About a Quick Divorce

[elscotto]

I am doing fine mostly. 90% of the time things are working well--sometimes you wake up and get a curve ball.

My Ex's mom hasn't liked me for a long time but I was very bothered when the ex MIL seemed to 300% support her daughter's willingness to get a divorce. Now remember, my ex didn't tell her parents "I want out of this marriage because I am having an affair--she went around and told people she "hadn't been happy for a long time" and "this was a long time coming" etc...so her parents automatically have me as the bad guy. Fast forward a couple of months (yesterday) and I see a Facebook posting by my ex MIL making a comment on the ex's OM's Facebook page. Now, either she knows about the affair and sanctions it or doesn't know and it bothers me that she thinks the affair partner is an "okay" guy. He isn't and had an instrumental role in wrecking my kids' lives.

My answer was to simply block all news page updates from the former MIL and the Ex so I don't have to see it. I can't control their behavior nor can I worry about it. I won't allow myself that.

BTW I can be reached via the gmail e-mail service. The easiest way is to use my first initial and then my last name. s is the first and then combine what what people do in marathons (run) and then yon and then 65 if you want to dop me a line. I monitor that constantly but not always this. I'd be interested in having a drink with you if you ever make it back to Belleville.

How are you doing--tough weeks in the recent past huh? stbxh can walk into his place of work with his head high because he is in a fog and feeling good, feels he did nothing wrong, and fits the profile of the WAS as the most selfish organism on the planet. He also gave a lot up and now is obligated to make it work.

Take care,
Scott