Topics are open in the infidelity forum as they are across the board. You are free to stop posting on this thread any time.
Hoosier's experience is valid and it is important to note not just when a theory works, but also when it doesn't work. As I have said several times before, the goal is to help people improve their lives and their relationships. We should try not to do harm. Understanding when things work and when they don't work is important.
