Huizenga says infidelity is the worst thing that can happen in a marriage too... how bout we all jump all over him too?
It's a wasteful debate in my opinion... RANKING marital offenses to me just smacks of SCOREKEEPING which is according to Phil McGraw a SERIOUS MARITAL offense of its OWN.
Perhaps you haven't noticed Allen, but you are the only one talking about it. Do you have an obsessive-compulsive disorder?
Personally, I think it is a lot more worthy of notice that Hoosier shared her story with us, which was an example of exposure to friends that failed to help her situation and a stern warning against exposure at the workplace.
Perhaps you haven't noticed Allen, but you are the only one talking about it. Do you have an obsessive-compulsive disorder?
And the mud-slinging continues...
Originally Posted By: Lotus
Personally, I think it is a lot more worthy of notice that Hoosier shared her story with us, which was an example of exposure to friends that failed to help her situation and a stern warning against exposure at the workplace.
You left yourself wide-open for a rebuke from me about you having an "obsessive-compulsive disorder".. but I wont do that.. that would be jeuvenlle...
Lotus are you trying to antagonize... petty, petty, petty..
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
And suggesting someone have a REAL disorder as opposed to one you mave made up is no less insulting...
You can suspect all you want, that is NOT the subject of THIS FORUM.. again you bring subjects into an infidelity forum that don't belong here and insult people in the same stride...
Keep up the mud-slinging, I wont 'have any part these sorts of insults..
Wait a minute- was Hoosier's ex a serial cheater and NPD if memory serves me? I think expose wouldn't work with NPD, am I correct?
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
Topics are open in the infidelity forum as they are across the board. You are free to stop posting on this thread any time.
Hoosier's experience is valid and it is important to note not just when a theory works, but also when it doesn't work. As I have said several times before, the goal is to help people improve their lives and their relationships. We should try not to do harm. Understanding when things work and when they don't work is important.
