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[awest1217]

Today has been a rough day for me. I have been working on typing the visitation agreement, and it is the hardest part of doing this. I have been S's sole provider for a year so it is hard to let him go. I know H when he is committed and follows through, is a great dad and loves S unconditionally, but it is still hard. The agreement is mostly so we both sign it and so H can't start doing like he did last May and cancelling days of visitation an hour before hand and crushing S's heart because I had told him he was going to see daddy. This will set up the times and hold him responsible and if he doesn't do those things then I have something in writing that he has signed. Not that that will make him follow through, but when it comes to the D and custody, if he continually cancels they can remove days. Once again I am trying to be as fair as possible while still protecting myself and S, who is most important to me.