Thank you SA & OP, I'm still very sad about our dog but I try to think about what a good life he had with us.

I feel good about sending WH the thank you e-mail, I would have done that for any other friend and that's how I want to treat him, right?

OP I like your suggestion to post my e-mails before I send them. It would give me the feedback and the cool-off period (which I seem to need often) crazy

I'm going to do some GAL over the next 3 days. Taking D16 & her friend for a ski weekend. I'm looking forward to it. I need to get out of here!!!! First time without WH. He actually said to me yesterday "Take your daughter and have fun, relax and don't think about bad stuff, when you come back we will attack the business together"

Does the "Your" daughter have any significance? Is it his way of detaching? Just wondering.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO