I will also point out OIN, I have read elsewhere that roughly one bad thing weighs the same as seven good things
This means every time you pursue you put your good work seven steps back. For every seven good steps you take to get close again one act of pursuit will put you right back there again.. its a HUGE backbeddal... be VERY careful on that
And again for the sake of diffusing rabblerousing I will point out the number was rough and I don't have the actual post reference handy.. feel free to quibble over the ratio or concept as you chose to.. to my mind its the thought that counts here.
