I agree with whoever said that you should not ease in but his nights should be his nights. The only person who benefited from what happened last night was Dan. The kids still had a rough morning. If they had been at his house he would have gotten to deal with the unpleasantness, but they were at your house so you got to deal with it freeing Dan up, once again to not have to deal with the mess he has made.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011