So what are your hobbies? What do you do FOR YOU? Have you let those hobbies go - if so, pick 'em back up now. Get out there and Get A Life (GAL). Do things that edify you, strengthen you, please you. Invite her - and if she says no - do it anyway.
Example (you seem to be an "example" kind of guy ) You used to bike when y'all were dating and early married. But life, kids, schedules and the bikes have dust and cobwebs on them in the garage. Pull the bike out, spruce it up and go. Then go again. Then tell her about the amazing trail you found and would she like to go. Yes? Great! Then spruce her bike up for her. No? Oh - ok! See ya!
Something like that. Greek
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