Okay Allen.....now I am confused. Didn't you advise him to go to OM's workplace and sort of call him out about the A? I would think that was taking an aggressive stand. Now, you are warning him about being aggressive with OM. Maybe it's just me.
I dont see a contradiction here. Offering a warning does not dismiss the advice, it just helps to ensure he's been made aware of the potential impact.
We get a warning message from our computer's operating system before we delete a file from the system, but we do it anyways most of the time.
I don't see a contradiction here.
I am offering the warning to appease rabblerousers for the most part, I felt and still do that the potential impacts are obvious.