As I have experienced with match, you contact someone and many times, someone drops their end of communication and that is the end. I am one of the worst in pursuit. The lady I keep in touch with tells me that women like to be taken to dinner. Maybe I should start suggesting that.

Bobbi Jo - it sucks that Dan is kind of flakey in following what you guys agreed with in transitioning the kids to a split lifestyle. You are unfairly burdeoned with doing the extra share of the work to help the kids cope with this difficult time.