I would appreciate any and all help. I believe that marriage has a chance.
dolla dolla bill ya'll.
I will give ya the same advice my daddy gave me.
"Get your $hit together, son!"
Get a job! Busting the affair is not the greatest of your worrys. Your wife has a taste of the sweet life. In her position right now life is good. She is growing, learning, her self respect is HIGH; her confidence is HIGHER. She is out of the house enjoying herself.
Now, what do you have in common with her? What is your selling point? How are you going to impress her?
Imagine this. The OM dumps her. She comes crawling back home with her tail between her legs. Super. Right? Then she wants to go out. Dinner and drinks. You carrying hundreds or a wad of twentys? I dont know what town you live in but here we leave our money on the bar when we're drinking. How big is your pile? IT IS A BIG DEAL!