If it's a good IC they will steer you back to YOU smile . Don't waste your IC time/money...read Depression Fallout if you want to understand how to deal with your depressed W. But basically if they don't want to deal with their depression, there's not much you can do.

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.