sometimes I don't have a clue what piecing is either. Hence the original name of my thread "Is this piecing?" lol
I felt it in my gut is all I can say. The constant anger and blame that was fired at me for so many months subsided. We entered MC. HOwever I still don't have a full commitment, I have "I don't think we have a chance we were doomed from the start" all that crap. BUt he said he would try. He said he'd give it a chance in MC to see if it feels different. SO I'm Dbing my butt off and feeling like I have a genuine chance.
This differs a lot from being in the place early on when you're dumped and just hoping they will talk to you like a normal person, let alone not file for D.
Ask others - I would be curious actually how they see piecing. Good luck.
Yep, I'd love to hear what others have to say- and it would be great if someone put a little blurb right under the main forum name so us newbies knew what this forum was for, exactly :-).
Sounds like your definition is kind of like, the first major storm has blown over, more or less, and you're in a place where you're doing some work that actually might seem to get you somewhere or you feel you're making progress, but you're not "there" yet. It's hard to know whether to keep posting in newbies or somewhere else. I think after awhile people probably stop reading a newbie post but I don't want to start a new one and clog things up... Anyway, what does piecing mean to anyone else?
thanks-
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
