Kai, I rarely come onto the boards any more but have felt compelled in the last week to do so. I have been here more or less since about 2005, long story and this post is not to focus on me or my sitch but to send you a hug today and to tell you that you will be ok. This is a long and hurtful journey but in time and with distance and support from places like this site you will get through to the other side. Honestly, one day you will just wake up and the pain is just about gone.
There are some great people on this site who can point you in the right direction but first things first, take care of yourself and your children and dont look at what he is doing ... focus on you.
