I won't say anything...

I would like to though, because she is one of those people who would hear my voice warning her not to get prego -possibly during the middle of sex when she would not be thinking about it otherwise.

But, you might be right--she might say "f- it" and just go ahead on unsafely.

I let my youngest d-11 spend the night over there last night for Spring Break. W wanted to spend time with her-took off work, but had no money to take her anywhere. D-11 wanted to spend the night. (D-15 won't even go into that house)

I really wanted to tell d-11 : "You want to spend the night at the house of the man who wrecked your family and stole your mother?"

But I didn't---she wants to see momma and I am trying to do what's best.

Should I have said SOMETHING negative?

W assured me she would not do any inappropriate behavior around her.

I thought ---what she considers appropriate is considered inappropriate by MOST people and this whole mess is inappropriate.

But I had already got off the phone, and it was probably best I didn't say anything?


M:48
W:35
S:16
D:15
D:10
Md: 12 & 1/2 years
bomb: Jan 8 ?
she moved out about then also
Moved in w/OM soon after