Forgive yes, but to just not talk about it anymore.... Talking is cathartic...
Talking is not necessarily cathartic for men...that's something that we women often project. Also, timing is everything.
Kalni, I love that you're pacing yourself on this. You WANT the conversations but your actions show that you are respecting the rhythm of piecing.
I hope that you'll be feeling better physically soon.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
I think that he finally understood what I said about NOT following my mood and initiating a change of mood with tenderness.
This is SO important! It's something that I wish that H and I had been able to do for one another.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
