Need a Plan for My Marriage

[saffie]

Do you know where she lives? You could write to her and give her your contact details so that if she wants to she can call you.

I was the last one to find out in my sitch and I wished someone had told me earlier. OW's H had known for months and not told me and I was really cross he hadn't. Things would have been cleared up much sooner if he had contacted me.

Be prepared for an explosion from your W though when you do contact OM's W. Eventually she will simmer down though and OM's real intentions will become clear.

OM often say they will leave there W's but statistics show they are more likely not to.