Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

Hi Rottzilla,

I have a hard time accepting some things about this situation. I guess it was the way my parents have raised me. They have been married for 49 years. It just seems so morally unjust to the whole family. I don't get, but I am sure that I will. I know others probably feel the way. I feel for you and what you have you have experienced. I hope that I have the strength you do. I am sure trying to the right things, but everything seems so wrong about infidelity. I just hate it!!!

I have to set boundaries and GAL. It is difficult for me to do that. I am will keep trying.

Thanks for the touch of reality. I need to hear it even if it hurts.