Hi FG, June, got your message FG. It is clear to me, he said it directly, he feels he cant talk about the A. I dont need details, I have ALL the details. We need to wrok through the meaning of it.
Somedays, things look helpless. How could we EVER get over a 2,5-3 year long love story? The easy route is to give up. It's so tempting. It's a good thing he finally seems to be moving towards me.
Yesterday I told him I didnt want to talk on the phone cause I was upset and sad. We didnt till when he called to say he was on his way home. When he arrived, he came to me and gave me a long warm hug and a a few cheek kisses. I think that he finally understood what I said about NOT following my mood and initiating a change of mood with tenderness. Our evening went fine after that although I still feel sick. It's a change. We woudl usually withdraw and put a wall bewteen us. K
