I forgot to mention that STBX is still sending me emails about the cottage in the summer, "If you're interested let me know"...what does she think I've forgotten that she wants me to go away with her and the girls for seven days? I have nightmares over the thought of it! Anyway, on that note, I took the kids out for dinner the other night and mentioned that the cottages at the resort they are going to are all named after the seven dwarfs...I'm not kidding...and my oldest said "oh my gosh, I hope mommy didn't reserve Grumpy cottage or I'm staying home!" Yes, STBX is still charming the kids.