I get this Allen. I think most of us do. I am just surprised at where in the list of attrocities he placed infidelity.
I am interested though to know if Harley's comments come from women only OR a mixture of men and women.
No, you aren't getting it, your comments make it clear you are thinking without listening first.
He is GROUPING offensive crimes.. he is NOT putting them in any specific ORDER OF OFFENCE...
The object is to put infidelity into a VIOLENT CRIME CATEGORY and OUT of the Harlequin Romance category so to speak.
Everyone is getting way to fixated on which one is MORE offensive.. they are ALL OFFENSIVE...
The problem is you have to EXPERIENCE infidelity to fully understand how offensive it is... unlike these other crimes.
Jumping on something that isn't even there (a ranking of which is most painful) is not relevant to his lecture, nor is it something he was intending at all...
I have said enough about this point... anyone can actively misread anything anyone has typed and turn it into mudslinging... I am not wasting my time defending this point of his further... any additional misinterpretations to it from this point are a tragedy.. but I have people I can be helping and I do not have time for this.
