Oh good lord. YOU'RE COMPLETELY MISSING THE POINT, LOTUS! This is HARDLY a random group! This is a group of people who have actually gone thru these various, godawful experiences in their lives, and this is what they're reporting!
If you have a problem with it, take it up with Harley. You're shooting the messengers. As for me, I think I'll head down the road apiece and help a newbie. Much less shrill over there.
Puppy
The absence of logic when assessing a post can lead to some terrible misinterpretations clearly.
I am finding this thread to be showing similar characteristics to infidelity :
1. A lot of heated viewpoints 2. A lot of mud-slinging 3. Lack of care in reading/listening before reply 4. Misrepresentations of what was originally said 5. Backpeddling when "caught" 6. Partisan posting 7. The need to step OUT of the thread merely to protect oneself and the other posters 8. And a hungry compusion to return to see what stage the drama has descended to after a short time away...
I should have stayed away from this thread... its dangerous to a person's health.
