Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails I do agree with one of your main points of your original post in this thread, however. I do think we should give more weight to those giving advice who have SUCCESSFULLY dealt with infidelity, ended their spouses' affairs, and who are successfully healing their marriages.
Puppy
Funny that. I think earlier in this thread Allen was taking the opposite view to Puppy on this.
Personally, I believe surviving and healing from infidelity in a M is fantastic enough, whether or not there is the bonus of the M being saved. I don't think, listening to some of the posters lives that all M's should even be saved - the expense to the individuals health and welfare is too much at times.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
