Yes you are going to survive. And you are so incredibly young and you have lots of live let in front of you. And your children love you.
Any you know what. Your ex- he is still going to be miserable. And now with you no longer to blame (oh but he will still try)- that evil venom is going to turn on himself and the OW. IT will be a nice slow downhill ride. While you, lighted by no longer having him will go up,up,up.
The man really is a lead weight.

I know we are not supposed to be vengeful but I have to admit- I smirk some with this.

Who knows maybe someday he will get himself together. Point is you waited long enough and you can't wait for remote "maybes" or "what if's"


Please post someday in the future and let people know how you survived it all and are doing better. IMO, I think it will help people..


Best!!!

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)