If someone sexually abused my children I am pretty sure that would come top of my list of worst experiences. I find that list a little hard to completely believe. I wonder if the answer differs depending on whether you are male or female?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength