Trent, you're missing his point. His point is, that the betrayal and the intensity of the pain and the damage is a direct result of the fact that your SPOUSE is someone who you love, trust, and who is supposed to have your best interests at heart. Surely you don't disagree that it hurts more when someone you LOVE (and who supposedly loves YOU) inflicts damage to you, rather than a stranger, acquaintance or extended family member?
Puppy, I think that entirely depends upon the nature of the damage inflicted. Once more , it is dependent on individual circumstances.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
