This is demeaning and belittling to anyone who has been a victim of the violent crime that rape is.
Not to mention the fact that the majority of rapes are NOT the proverbial "stranger in a dark alley". At the risk of straying off topic, a 2005 study by the Department of Justice showed that 73% of rape victims knew their attacker.
Trent, you're missing his point. His point is, that the betrayal and the intensity of the pain and the damage is a direct result of the fact that your SPOUSE is someone who you love, trust, and who is supposed to have your best interests at heart. Surely you don't disagree that it hurts more when someone you LOVE (and who supposedly loves YOU) inflicts damage to you, rather than a stranger, acquaintance or extended family member?
