He is simply speaking from his vast experience in dealing with the subject matter, Lotus. Steven W. Harley, M.S. has over 14 years of counseling and coaching experience with couples and families. Steve specializes in adultery recovery having personally coached over 3,000 cases specifically helping couples survive and recover from marital infidelity. He is a member of the American Counseling Association and the International Association of Marriage and Family Counselors.
Steve Harley received his graduate degree in Applied Behavior Analysis, which gave him extensive training in successfully developing and coordinating plans for change. And since Steve is a gifted motivator and encourager, he offers a most effective opportunity for you to have a great and lasting marriage.
Steve Harley has guided couples from all 50 states in the U.S.A. and over 40 countries. He is the son of Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr. and has been trained and supervised by him in marriage counseling and marriage coaching.
Is it "aggrandizing" if he is merely sharing with his audience the pain of what his patients have reported to HIM?
Is it a brutal analogy? Yep -- absolutely. However, he is just sharing observations from his thousands of counseling sessions with those that have been affected by it.