Don't believe what your W tells you about OM or OM'W because the OM will likely be lying to your W. In reality he is probably sleeping with both your W and his own.

It may hurt the OMW to hear what you have to say, but she will want to know. Just don't ever think OMW is your friend - ultimately she is out to protect her own family.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength