The thing I liked most about him when I married him was his huge desire to be an involved father and his integrity. Not that like many other people have looked for the same thing to only be disappointed.
We honestly both had incredibly crappy childhoods and do not have the skills that many healthier adults have.
It was a slow, very slow sink downhill for many years and it's been a slow walk up. Very slow.
I did not have to deal with a hubby with serious mental illness, addiction, cheating, or leaving the house. So the sitchs here are much harder.
I will eventually peak at OTMP and you and then I am back to GALing by keeping off this board.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
