she makes it impossible for me to detach, as she went to a concert last night and sends me a picture of herself saying 'thinking of you'. but then otherwise its the same old same old... not much contact during the day-- she is just living her life up there with the boys.
My questions is in response to this statement. Basically if she had moved with the boys for a new job (say no situation) and you were following a few months later...Would you expect her to call all day long?
When we moved down here...I had to come down two months in advance. I was busy starting a new job and she was busy taking care of two children and packing a house. We talked maybe once a day....that is what our schedules permitted.
In the statement, your wife makes a gesture that she is thinking of you. Yet you turn it around into almost a self-pity type statement.
Think about it differently and you will come up with a different perspective.
