The only thing I've read you be controlling about is no OM. It appears as if he's still trying to figure out a way to keep you and her.

He still can't commit to one person. That's all you are asking.

Type up the agreement, but be prepared for him to reject it.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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