8 weeks until D Day!!

[lea74]

Yeah you are right. I was probably too late to tell my MIL, especially as my H has just had a 2 week vacation with her. He must have told her some really ‘interesting stuff’ as she has gone really quiet. I just find it so hard to believe as she has actually been there when my H tried to hit me once.
I guess I have been too late about everything. Realising the reality of the A and then exposing it to other man and my H’s family. I guess I am just naive or believe the best of people.
I didn’t want to tell my MIL sooner as I didn’t want to hurt her feelings and spare her the hurt about the reality of her son. If I had told her sooner about the A then I guess I would have gotten the satisfaction that I am looking for. However, that is just now who I am.
I guess if I am the type of person that can spare persons feelings and not try to be vindictive then that is just the person I am and I need to accept that. Maybe I need to take some pride in the fact that I didn’t go around trying to be vindictive – not sure.
I do agree with the policy though that if you support his decision then you cant be part of my life. Unfortunately as my MIL and FIL live in another country they don’t get to see what is going on.
I do believe in Karma though and I am sure he will one day get his come uppance.

Take care all and thanks for the input.

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