You will not forget, but you will forgive. Once you let it go, the torture will be over.
I guess forgiving in a sense that you realize you are better off without them and they did you a favor. I can see that. In my early 20s I had a serious relationship which ended in her cheating on me. I was devastated and later realized it was good that we didnt stay together. I can never forgive her for what she cheating on me though.
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D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10