I think you have it- you had to have it to get through med school and a residency! and that was a LONG haul.
This is another situation which requires a longer perspective. I think you have it in you, just change how you are looking at things. Maybe less day-to-day and more month- to-month assessment.
As the wise men have stated...there is still a part of you that comes across in your posts that wants to deny this is perhaps MLC, that it needs a different approach, that there may be some real work needed to keep this marriage intact, maybe some sacrifice. Maybe the love needs to be unconditonal.
I get it. We all have been there railing against the mire we find ourselves in..Why me? we ask.. Why you? Because there is something YOU are supposed to learn here. Maybe many somethings to learn here in this new journey you find yourself on..and no amount of wailing or self-pity can turn you around back where you came from..the only way through is down the path you are currently on.
Its not the path most of us would have chosen, but time and again you will see people post how they are thankful they had to go down that path to learn what they needed.
Look forward. Move forward. Embrace the present.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
