MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

Mach1, kissak, Jack & cat04 thank you for your advice. You all agree on one thing "STOP TALKING TO OW's HUSBAND"

Well...lesson learned...........

WH came by again this afternoon to talk about business. I really lay-out the numbers for him to make him see that we can't continue like this and brought up the reliability (leaving town for weeks at the time to see OW) and trust issue (doing free work behind my back for OW's company and not charging for services).

WH said that he won't be flying out as often and for as long anymore, said that he will go maybe once in 4-6 weeks for a few days (We'll see)

As for doing work for OW; said that he is sorry for not telling me about it, that it was wrong.

I told him that we should start billing for hosting OW's Company website; he said "BUT I PROMISED HER THAT I WOULDN'T" I said why should our struggling business subsidize another business. WH said that he will think about it.

THEN HE BOROUGH UP WHAT OW'S HUSBAND has been telling everyone about him and apparently I'm the source of all the information. OW's Husband used me and twisted things around and really exaggerated to make my WH look really bad.

WH was crying so hard, (reminded me of a little boy) and said "People are now thinking that I'm a no good looser, Is that what you think of me too?"

I told him that I always looked up to him and respected him and thought that he was the best guy I could wish for and despite his recent choices I still feel the same.

I apologized if I said anything that was used against him by OWH. Told WH that I have stopped talking to OWH when I realized that he was probably using me. That I was naive to think that he is just my support-buddy. I have also told him that I often defended him and have never put him down in front of OWH.

Well anyway in retrospect...talking to OWH was not good DB'g. I had some damage to repair today. But we hugged and cried together after this exchange, so I hope we are all good. Last thing I want is for WH not to trust me.