Lea, it by alt you mean fb, then yes. I know the feling to want to see/know that S is getting some pain from all this. Sometimes it doesn't happen when you think it needs to. Your H will get his come uppance, its just a matter of time.
I would guess you were late telling mom, H had already gave her his version of what happened. Being that you were close to her, he had to put you down pretty good for her to take the stance she has taken. It's all script, don't let it bother you.
