What the hell is going on? I'm liking it, but can anyone even begin to guess what she is up to?
Did I stutter before?
ENJOY the moment. Enjoy the ride. What good is it for you to go on a trip and forget to enjoy the ride? Then when you get there you start worrying about getting a room with a view, then when you get the room with the view, you start to worry if it is going to rain tomorrow and you have plans to go to the beach. You worry all night about the rain and don't enjoy your night dancing with your wife. Next day the sun is out and you get to the beach, but you are worrying about "what if I get sunburned and what if there is a shark in the water. You then fail to enjoy the day at the beach.
On the way back from the beach, you start to worry about where you are going to eat tonight. "Should we have steak, seafood, hamburgers?"......
GET IT? Do you GET IT?
Enjoy the ride. She is calling you. She is changing her hair color to what you like. She is being nice. You are being nice.
Enjoy the ride. Be a happy, calm, cool, collected mature man. Don't pursue her, but it is ok to be nice and have fun with this.
Work on YOUR issues. It seems to me that the first one you could work on right now is WORRY. It is a bad bad habit. Kick the habit. Enjoy the moment. I have no idea what she is up to. For all I know, my wife has been faking being madly in love with me for all these years. For all I know she could leave me tomorrow and tell me that she hates my guts. What good is it possibly going to do me to think those thoughts? I can analyze it to death, but I still am never going to know for a FACT. Go with the flow. Cool confident men go with the flow. Be that man.
If she stops calling or backs off again.. SO BE IT. Just keep going on happily about your life. No biggie either way. Women ARE attracted to men who don't get all bent out of shape when there is a crisis.
ENJOY the ride. Enjoy the scenery along the way to the vacation. Enjoy the vacation.
GET IT? Seek peace in your soul. BE at peace. Life is good.
