Her heart has already left

[AmyBel]

I'm finding the marriagebuilders.com site really helpful re: infidelity. She says that the OW is her soulmate, that they have a destiny to work out, that she has been yearning for her since their breakup (OW left her) 25 years ago... I feel like sloppy seconds.

Sounds like "in love" poisoning to me.

I'm SOOOOO mad at the OW who I thought was my friend. I'm not the go and punch her out kinda person but the urge is there!

Is there anything productive I can do about the OW?

Thinking of the two of us going to OW house to read the parameters of the NO CONTACT agreement so I can look into her eyes while she says she'll comply.