Do you really speak in a way that your spouse understands ?
If I said that I made latex gloves for a living, and that was my passion, and I also collected old light bulbs.
The latex glove thing was something that I didn't speak often of though ( because it was my occupation ) , and what you saw most often was my light bulb collection.
How long until the true passion was ignored and you only talked to me about the light bulbs ?
How long would it take, when everyday life kicks in , and the latex glove passion was forgotten?
I mean really forgotten ?
My point being...
Yes, this has to do with LL....
SA, what REALLY got lost in the throws of everyday life that you overlooked ?
Be honest, not with me, rather with yourself...
This is mirror work , and it sucks...
Very necessary though..
Your NEXT relationship deserves this..
DID YOU SPEAK TO HIM IN A WAY THAT HE UNDERSTOOD ?
