My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

H just wants to blame someone and you are the easy choice. If he wants to talk about the R, DB does not say to avoid it, it just says not to bring it up yourself. If he asks you again if you are going to talk, just ask him when he would like to meet in person and talk. Then go with what rr22 said. Also it is important to remember these are strategies and if one is not working you should change it. It seems to me H is starting to pursue you a little. Asking about you. So it is small, but it is good.

The process is to set some goals for your relationship that are solution oriented and action oriented. Then set a strategy to use and watch for progress. If good things happen, keep with it. If not then change strategies.

Hang in there.